Try the Conversation Diamond to flex more effective choices in heated conversations

8 Tools to Help to Navigate Tense Holiday Dinners

Daniel Stillman
5 min readNov 18, 2022

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Family Dinner and an Argument

Eight ways to avoid a holiday dinner Battle

1. Drink Less

2. Slow the conversation down

3. Dodge Questions and Provocations

“SO! Are you two having kids or what!?”

“Are you going to vote for Sleepy Joe in 2024?!”

“Isn’t it a disaster what’s happening at our borders!?”

“Do you mean Human Kids? Or Baby Goats?“

“Is it 2024 yet?!”

“Isn’t it a disaster that I can’t have another slice of PIE!?”

4. Take Winning Off the Table

The truth is, Facts don’t change Minds.

5. Prioritize Relationships and Listen Passionately

6. Tell me a Story about…?

7. Take Poll vs Digging in

8. Remember that you have choices

THE CONVERSATION DIAMOND: FIVE CHOICES IN EACH MOMENT

Try the Conversation Diamond to flex more effective choices in heated conversations

“I don’t want to talk about that.”

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Daniel Stillman
Daniel Stillman

Written by Daniel Stillman

Executive coach. Host of theconversationfactory.com. Often riding bikes to the ocean.

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